HOUSE RULES

1. At The Playhouse we have a very strict policy of no sexual contact with our slaves during a real life scene - whether at a session, party, 24/7 holiday, etc. By this we do mean NOTHING sexual - this includes strap-on training (anal play), golden showers, hand relief, body worship (i.e.oral sex), etc, etc. If you are looking for any of these in a real life scene please look elsewhere as this is something we will not negotiate on. CBT (cock and ball torture) is ONLY available in a hands off context e.g. flogging, forcing you to wear our custom made pincushion thong, etc. If you persistently ask for sexual contact during a scene you will be ejected from the premises.

2. At The Playhouse we have a very strict policy of NO alcohol is to be consumed before or during a scene. This applies to both the submissives and Mistresses. Alcohol impares judgement of the Mistresses and dulls the subs senses. It spoils the fun Domme and sub can have and so will not be tolerated. If when you turn up we have good reason to believe you have been drinking you will be refused admission. This also applies to slave parties. Alcohol will not be served for Dommes or subs. (On our wishlist it mentions we are always happy for a sub to bring a bottle of wine as a present for the Mistresses. This will not be consumed during the scene, even at a party, but will be enjoyed by them on a separate occasion.)

3. NO drugs are to be used prior to, or during a session. No drugs are to be brought onto the premises. If you break this rule you will be refused admission/ejected from the premises. (Prescription drugs are excluded but we must be informed you are taking them prior to the scene - see rule 4.)

4. You must inform us before the session begins of any medical issues. You will be given time to do this when you first enter our presence, before the scene begins. This includes things which may seem quite minor or not relevant to a scene, such as asthma, a bad back, high blood pressure, heart problems, diabetes, etc. If you are on any medication or have any you carry for emergencies for any conditions, you must inform us of this, and where you keep it. Even if you had a headache earlier in the day and took a paracetamol you must inform us before the scene. This is for your own safety and to enable us to all have a more intense, enjoyable scene. (If you forgot to mention something until the scene had begun you should use your safeword to inform us of it, then we can continue with the session. Using the safeword means we will know you are serious, and not just saying something to make excuses.)

5. Bad language and/or violence from the submissive will not be tolerated and you will be evicted from the premises. (Cheeky subs will be tolerated and punished appropriately, but abusive subs will not be tolerated. Judgement will be at the discretion of the Mistress. If you want to use bad language this should be discussed when arranging the scene to check if it will be acceptable.)

6. When you enter The Playhouse you will be given a brief interview before the scene begins. This is your time to speak open and freely to your Mistress/es about any likes, dislikes, or ideas for the scene. You should inform us at this time of anything we should be aware of e.g. medical issues. When you phone to book the session you will be permitted to give a basic outline of what you would like but this interview is your chance to discuss any issues, ideas, or concerns in-depth so that during the scene you can feel more comfortable giving total control over. We do find some submissives find it easier to bring along a written wishlist of ideas for the scene - this is fine with us. When the interview is over you will be told to change/undress and the scene will begin. If you have previously visited The Playhouse you will still be given a brief interview so you can speak freely about anything you particularly enjoyed last time and want to explore further, or anything you'd like to be done differently - or you can leave it up to our imaginations!

7. In the interview before the scene begins you must inform us of anything you feel you may have a bad reaction to. E.g. if you were burnt badly in the past, and you feel you would have a very strong reaction to hot candle wax play you should inform us. We will then not scene in this way on a first visit, but could explore it in the future if you wanted to, once trust had been built up.

8. Safewords will always be given to a submissive before a scene. This is for your own safety and enjoyment. It enables your Mistress to know when you are being naughty and should be punished and when you are being serious and need help or a break. For more information about safewords and why and how we use them at The Playhouse follow this link. Safewords.

9. If you can not attend a session you have booked you will give as much notice as possible of your cancellation. If no notice is given and you simply fail to turn up you will not be allowed to re-book and if you have paid a deposit this will not be refunded. (The only exception will be if you pay in full for the missed session - then you will be allowed to book future sessions.)

10. Before the scene begins you will be required to sign a statement stating you have read the house rules and consent to them. This will require your signature only - no other details.

11. If you choose to bring your own equipment it will not necessarily be used on you during the session. This will be at the discretion of the Mistress. The most likely reason it may not be used is if the Mistress feel it would not be safe.

12. If you wish to bring your own outfit to wear for the scene that is fine. You will be provided with a room to change in. If you do not have an outfit we prefer slaves to wear a black thong of their own, or they can can wear one of our custom made pincushion leather thongs. If you especially desire it you can be naked for your scene, although we do prefer slaves to wear a thong.