How it all started...

I have been dominating men for fun and pleasure since I was 18 and first discovered the fetish scene. I had always felt an inclination towards being in control, getting my own way, and being cruel, but I knew these impulses to be wrong and unkind so I buried them. When I discovered the fetish scene it was a very freeing and balancing experience as I could finally let these feelings out in a controlled, acceptable and fun way, that would actually be enjoyed and seen as a good thing by another person.

Developing the interest.

I have had an avid interest in BDSM ever since, and have been developing and pursuing my skills by
- attending play parties and fetish clubs all over the UK (and the world whenever possible)
- visiting fetish fairs to meet people and buy wonderful kinky items
- watching fetish films (Preaching to the perverted is still the best!)
- reading many factual and fictional BDSM books (I especially enjoyed The Topping Book)
- surfing websites and visiting chat rooms, and consequently pursuing email domination
- attending BDSM workshops and demos to learn new skills and ideas
- and of course having many slaves, submissives, and maids to take me to events and cater to my every whim at home.

Deciding to go Pro

Ever since I was 18 I have wanted to be a professional Mistress as it would mean I could do a job I adored. However I wanted to wait until I felt I was knowledgeable and experienced enough to be truly good at being bad. I also wanted to know enough about myself as a Mistress to know what I do and do not enjoy, what my limits are, and what I want to explore. I wanted to ensure I knew how to read a bound gagged and helpless sub well enough to play on the edge even if they were on such a great endorphin high that they were no longer aware of where they were, let alone be able to remember to use their safeword if they were in trouble.

I know there is always much more to learn and experience but I look forward to pursuing this - perhaps with you!

My specialities

All the services we offer I thoroughly enjoy, as we all do. However I do have my favourite sessions. In real life sessions I absolutely adore administering corporal punishment - whether it is to punish a naughty sub or send a sub on a endorphin high. I love the feeling of power it gives me to know this person is giving me consent to hurt them, I revel in inflicting pain, and I find it fantastic knowing someone is so spaced from my efforts that I know more about their body at that moment than they do. I also enjoy the adrenalin buzz I get from the physical exertion. Floggers are divine instruments, but I love to use a wide range of equipment, including imaginative 'toys', as well as my own hands and nails.

I love humiliating men - in real life and through other means (email, phone, letters). It gives me a real power trip to know a sub is doing a disgusting degrading task, happily, because I have ordered them to, or to insult them and ignore them. There is nothing quite like the feeling I get from knowing a man wants and needs me to let my cruel and evil bitch side out to play with him....

Role playing can be a very relaxing and rewarding way to truly get away from it all and get into character. It can take play onto a whole new level and can lead to a very strong connection between a dom and a sub. As well as more traditional role plays (e.g. maid servant forced to cater to my every whim) I have a particular interest in animal roles. I find either taking on the role of an animal myself - such as a Cat playing with a bird it has caught, or having the sub as an animal pet can be fascinating and a way to escape even further into the realms of fantasy and escapism that make BDSM so much fun. (Please note I never involve actual animals in BDSM or role playing in any way).

Having a sub worship my boots is lots of fun - or trampling on them, using them as a human carpet, below my feet and beneath me. I find trampling can be a very forceful example and reminder to subs of their place- below me!

The whole concept of cross dressing fascinates me. It can be such a freeing experience and can be an amazing thing to be a part of. I also feel men look better in a dress - as long as it's done well. I don't know why...I just always have. I love helping men dress and turning them into a 'girlfriend' and having girly chats. One of my past subs felt so comfortable in this role he was eventually going out in skirts forgetting he'd got them on - until everyone started staring because he still had facial hair! (He now goes to alternative nights and gets chatted up more often than most of his female friends!)

Introducing new slaves to the wonderful world of BDSM is a fantastic experience. I know it is a great responsibility as my actions could affect whether this person decides to take it further in their life or gives up at the start. It is so rewarding to teach a new submissive what BDSM is all about and then either set them free to explore on their own, or continue to train and teach them and have lots of fun!

I also love dominating from a distance. It's a very different experience to dominating in person, and lots of fun. I can let my evil mind out to play, as you can often explore more extreme fantasies than are suitable for actual real life play. Technology also allows subs to easily send proof they have performed a task with cameras or even tapes so BDSM play can also be conducted from a distance. The distance and animonity can also add an interesting edge that you can not explore in face to face scenes.